well, conflict in a relationship is natural. it can makes us more know each other, in good and bad sight. but, to much conflict is bad too, because it can make the relationship broken. just like a car fuel. if it still fills the tube in a normal, it would make the car run safety and fast (because if the fuel is empty, it making the car stop, because it should fills the tube). but if it fills the tube excessive (beyond normal limits) it will make the tube is leaking / damaged due to excessive fuel. well i don't know about car, but it's kinda like that :) |