What are the keys to a lasting relationship?
Not taking each other for granted - kindness, sharing laughter and working at it!
trust. love. respect. understanding. loyalty. friendship.
TRUST. TRUST. TRUST.
loyalty; devotion; being pure, clear, honest; to listen to your heart and to share what you feel; to always keep saying what your feelings are and always proving it; making small little surprises which make your soul to smile and feel joy..
Good sense of humor, intelligence, very high EQ, and trust wins me over any day compared to the occasional who come thru claiming to be a hottie bloke with a very BIG cock. A lot of he time they wouldn't knw the first instance on how to use it. Nor what a real woman might want.
Although, I have no aversion to big cocks nor older lads who know well their way arnd a woman's body.
Forgiveness, laughter, and overcoming obstacles together.
Try to accept the other person as he or she is. There are lots of personality traits which are impossible to change.
Think about what exites you the most about the other. What do you appreciate the most. There were several things I've noticed which convinced me I've found my man.
Once I really liked a victorian portrait of a man in a museum. After few years I visited the place with my future hubby and... voila! The portrait looked almost like it was painted from him. I noticed that in movies, the more main hero looks and behaves like hubby, the more I like the movie. That was true even before I've met my man!
When I used to spend half of the summer with my mum and then went to meet him at the airport it always was the same: hundreds of faces floating by. Then suddenly I think: "Wow. What a man! Wait... Its my hubby!"
Plus I know he would never betrayed me in any way, always try to be his best and has a killing "insecurity smile". Yes, in my case we both enjoy situations when one feels slightly uneasy and another could help. Again, Socionics explains this.
I've also heard an advice (which I think is sound) that every 5-7-10 or so years it is useful to somehow reinvent the relationship. Perhaps to learn to see the partner from another point of view.
Communication, honesty, compromise, integrity, respect.
Romance, always resolve conflicts before bed, and always kiss good bye and good night
Love, trust, respect, security, stability, humor, communication, and the ability to give without end and take with true appreciation.
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