All strong emotion locks and narrows attention. When we fall in love we focus exclusively on the object of our love and tend to focus out any elements that might when we are calmer) indicate this person is not perfect. The "pleasure centres" in the brain produce dopamine, oxytocin (the "bonding hormone") and serotonin. The cure? Time and familiarity :)
Our mind falls into several traps throughout life, the search for ourselves, love is lost on us, because we look the other what is lacking in our wholeness. Sorry, I do not know if I can talk about it with excellence, just speak from my experience. When I started to love myself, everything changes and we were never dependent on the love of another. My cure was, to love myself first of all! Try it!
(I do not speak English well, then that's it!)
Loove is innate. It's natural, and in exile abused, in man in the extreme. It's root is consciounness of a higer truth and purpose, we exist to become and attach to; some name this G-d, others, their authentic self and still others name it their soul mate. ALL are correct. THe cure, is do NOT fall, rather ascend in authentic identity and cognitively attach, consciously, to its peace, harmony and absence of stress.
Lets let Johnny Cash say something here:
Love Is A Burning Thing
And It Makes A Fiery Ring
Bound By Wild Desire
I Fell Into A Ring Of Fire
CHORUS:
I Fell Into A Burning Ring Of Fire
I Went Down, Down, Down
And The Flames Went Higher
And It Burns, Burns, Burns
The Ring Of Fire
The Ring Of Fire
I Fell Into A Burning Ring Of Fire
I Went Down, Down, Down
And The Flames Went Higher
And It Burns, Burns, Burns
The Ring Of Fire
The Ring Of Fire
The Taste Of Love Is Sweet
When Hearts Like Ours Meet
I Fell For You Like A Child
Oh, But The Fire Went Wild
CHORUS
I Fell Into A Burning Ring Of Fire
I Went Down, Down, Down
And The Flames Went Higher
And It Burns, Burns, Burns
The Ring Of Fire
The Ring Of Fire
I Fell Into A Burning Ring Of Fire
I Went Down, Down, Down
And The Flames Went Higher
And It Burns, Burns, Burns
The Ring Of Fire
The Ring Of Fire
And It Burns, Burns, Burns
The Ring Of Fire
The Ring Of Fire
High intense emotional state, we experience a physiological high and affix our current state of emotions to a love interest.
Cure = Don't get aroused so easily.
It's complex, has a long history, with many levels of behaviroal mutation(s), as we (the human family) are NOW undergoing a long wave, fundamental, cognitve transformation, with redemption's nascent beginning. No cure is needed, although spiritual growth will end, very soon, much of the confusion and unnecessary broad human suffering(s).
chemistry.getting old
Falling in love is a neurological chemical response to a set of stimuli. Is there a cure yes, it`s called being dead inside. We fall in love with with those who have the potential to wound us the most and heal us the most.
This is part of human nature, meeting a person and having a matter of "don't-know-what" to realise that both match in many ways. Explanations come from the pure physical in terms of pheromones to the sociocultural ones.
Why would you want to cure that wonderful feeling!?
Part a of the question - It depends who you are! Love has a physiological component - Oxytosin. It also has a huge psychological component.
Part b of the question - Not if you are a Love addict - sorry.
Yes , you are supposed to ENTER YOUR LOVE, rather than FALLING IN LOVE
Brain chemicals, mainly nerve growth factor, testosterone, estrogen, dopamine, norepinephrine, serotonin, oxytocin, and vasopressin.
Lol are you asking me personally or professionally? Falling in love is meeting someone and deciding that they posses qualities that match those qualities you desire to have in a partner. To cure falling in love a relationship must be cemented in the qualities of trust, friendship, history, compatibility (opposites do not attract) a blended social network, and shared activities. |
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