Alex Giorgetti [omgetti]
What was your first crush like?
It was young. Very very young. Probably not too real, but I had a crush on him. And I can still remember his face and how much I wish he was here when we grew up.
What is most important to you in a relationship?
As long as there's love, it is real.
Is love a creative challenge?
At times of struggle, we tend to always think that we are the ones who are right. It's a challenge because sometimes, admitting to yourself could be your last resort.
Do you consider it necessary to share views on politics or art?
Necessary, no. Politics and art are topics. If one truly loves the other, they can have a wonderful time together without one word.
What do women want from men?
To be loved in return. To be treated like a queen. To be the only one for him.
What do men want from women?
To marry them and to have a new life in the world (have a baby) with his wife.
What things would definitely stand in the way of any possibility of starting a relationship with someone?
Friendship. Another person, maybe. Parents' rejection. The other party isn't that into you. You're afraid to get into something too serious.
Do you keep on trying, even if your feelings are not reciprocated?
Sometimes, when life gives you lemons, you have to make lemonade. I believe the ratio of looking for something and finding nothing & looking for nothing but finding something is quite imbalanced. I would keep trying, as long as I know in the long, all will be love.
Is conflict sometimes necessary to fuel love?
When two people fight and make-up, it proves that when things get rough, it'll be okay in the end.
I believe that fighting is a good thing in a relationship. Keeping emotions to yourself can cause even more conflict; not just to yourself but to your partner as well.
Should we accept being alone or seek a way out as soon as possible?
Being alone is a great experience. Being able to do things without anyone holding you back or breathing down your neck is a relief, even.
But at times of loneliness, we tend to miss being loved and loving in return. In all people, small of big, there is always an infinite amount of love waiting to be shared.
Is it possible to only be friends with someone you are deeply in love with?
Honestly, no. To be only friends with someone you're madly in love with is stupid. It hurts and it makes no sense on just loving and not saying anything about it. It's stupid because people try to prove to themselves that they can do it, but end up breaking their hearts.
Now, I'm not calling the people who do this stupid. What I'm saying is STAND UP FOR WHO YOU LOVE. Tell them. They'll appreciate it so much more, and possibly, a miracle might happen.
Which kind of loyalty is more important, physical or emotional?
Physical is always important, but I'd have to call it a tie. Balance can be nice, at the best of times.
Do you keep friendly relations with your exes?
Of course. It's never a drag to say hello once in a while, and to hang out. Scary though, but it's a good experience.
What three questions would you ask a person to see whether or not they could be considered a potential mate?
1. Would you treat me the same way a king treats a queen?
2. If you were to cheat on me, would you have the balls to tell me right after?
3. Why me?
Do you have a formula for increasing your partner's libido?
There are many ways to increase sexual stimulation. It all depends on who you're dealing with.
What is your ideal plan for a romantic evening?
Just my partner and me, in my favorite place in the world, sitting beside some music, wine, and good food.
Is jealousy a healthy or an unhealthy reaction?
Well, it's somewhat healthy when it is used in a playful tone. If my partner was jealous of my guy friend, I would be flattered because it means that he want me all for himself.
But when jealousy turns into something more, that is when it is bad.
Do you believe love is possible when there are geographical, age, racial or cultural differences?
I have been in love with the same dog for almost 11 years.
Love is possible for the youngest baby up to the eldest person. Love is a miracle.
What are the keys to a lasting relationship?
Chemistry. Loyalty. Trust. Attachment. And above all, love.
What advice would you give to anyone trying to flirt with you?
Don't come off too cocky. Be sweet and have a decent conversation with me. That's honestly what almost every girl wants.